Keeping scores in relationships is one of the unhealthiest things ever, especially if you want yours to end in marriage.
When you keep scores, it makes you unhappy, bitter and a lesser person, because you’ll always feel you’ve done so much for your partner who should return the favor.
This could ultimately lead to the untimely demise of your relationship if you don’t discard that score sheet in your head.
According to All Women Stalk, here are a few ways keeping scores destroys you and your relationship:
1. You think of all the wrong things your partner has done: Work towards focusing on the right things they have done. No relationship is perfect which is why a balance must be found to work at the wrong things and improve the right things.
2. You feel you are better than your partner: You become bitter and the lesser person when your keeping scores makes you believe that you are a better person than your partner and forget your bad traits too. Finding happiness in each other is all that matters.
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